Actions in life: Motivations to what to do.

I have often been thinking of the idea of life. The question comes to mind, what is this all about? I listen and read subject matter about these issues and they all come up with the idea that life has no meaning. Some state that life is a school or training ground for what ever comes next, others say that only God has the meaning. But the most respected people say that it has no reason but to be, in the being of life is the only meaning. So if life has no other meaning other than to be, what is the best way to be? But then if we ask the same question in the other ideas about life we may still come to the same answer. So let's just state these questions out.  

• What is the best way to be?
• What is the best way to learn?
• What is the best way to get into God's kingdom?
• What is the best way to reach nirvana?
• What is the best way to live in Christ?
• What is the best way to reach enlightenment?

  I like question, because a good questions can lead you to a good answer, and the simple question gives the best answers. So how can we answer all these questions at the same time.   I can tell you how to be that is best for our bodies. There is only one emotion that puts the body in it's most optimal state, where the immune system is at its highest effectiveness, the body repairs it self the fastest, and puts the least amount of stress on the heart and the other mussels' in the body. The connection with others in happiness and love, bringing into actions the empathy with all of life, sharing in the joys of being, heightens every aspect of the body to function at its best. Being at this state of love with all of life and being in positive connections with others is the physiological answer to each of these questions, it is almost as if God created us, or designed us to be in this state for our best advantage to reach the goals in the questions through our body.   Now the body is at this state, next is the brain. The brain working in the same state of happiness, joy, and love with life and the connection with others, works to help the body and helps its self. In this state of being, the brain concentrates with longer duration and the information is retained in long term memory faster. Though with the subject of memory, any heightened emotional state will embed information into memory fast. Only happiness will enhance information storage that is taught to you by intentional teaching by another into long term memory. Also in this state the connection with nature and your environment become more intense, as the wonders of nature brings further joy.   Now that we come this far, it is through the state of happiness, joy, and love of life you begin to see the folly of man in their states of fears, frustrations, manipulations, and intimidations of other and towards nature it self. It is with and through this connection with everything around you, and then you will find the connection with God, without any manmade intervention. Just like any other emotion, the emotion of happiness, joy and love spreads like a virus to those around you, and so it spreads as a ripple affect in society.   Now what does this look like in a person's behaviour? This person can do anything they want to do, but what they want to do is to increase the feelings of happiness, joy and love within others, so that they also receive the same in the response. Thus the definition of doing anything they want is contingent in what they what to receive from others.   In reality, with what we live with now in society, the translation of what we love is corrupted by our language and thus by our short term view of what love and happiness or joy is. So here we have a love of money, because it supplies us joy and happiness, though this is only short term. As soon the item desired is acquired the joy and happiness will only last a few days or weeks. What we neglect in this is the connection with others, instead fear, jealousy, envy, frustration, etc, is created in others because they have the item and others do not.   Likewise, love is misplaced to the point that the liberties of others become limited through the control over them, with the assumption that it is an act of love. Now this works well for children when they do not see the dangers that may surround them, but when this limitation of liberty on adults is conducted, an emotional response become imminent. You may stop a child from mountain climbing, but instead foster the enthusiasm by finding an instructor for the child to build a skill. Though this is a different matter when you try to do the same thing to an adult. Whereas Love placed appropriately gives advice, and guidance to an adult, with the ability to let go when resistance surfaces, thus giving liberty with information of consequences.   This is where we work with love, with the understanding that life is love and that God is love. It is when we act to limit the freedom or liberties of others without love, we create fear, frustration, and manipulation in other. In these reactionary responses in others we receive the behaviour that we initiate in them. Thus we receive the anger, abuse, or violence from our attempt to control others without a well reasoned motivation for their well-being. Because when the client or recipient of your control asks why this control over them is use, it is with an explanation the client or recipient will understand and comply with your control or negotiate another cause of action.